All my social networking is flooded with the Mother day’s wishes, selfies with theirs mom’s & pretended like they are the ideal child of their mother. Since morning I was thinking, Do all the people who are posting their mother’s photos, selfies & messages does their mothers are really on social networking to see all this? Did they actually wished their mother in person or are they just going with the trend & posting the pictures because everyone else is uploading? I was going through a lot of post mentioning “To the bestest mother, I adore the most”, “I respect the most”, “my mother is everything to me”, “I can do anything for my mother”, “I wish in every birth I’ll be your son or daughter” etc etc. Do they actually means what are they writing on their post or is it just quotes which they have copied from somewhere?
Meanwhile there is another thought which made me restless and I forgot everything related to the earlier thorough. This second thought was about, Do we really deserves the love and affection our mothers shower on us? Does she want us in her next birth? Are we even good enough to be called our mothers son & daughter? Can she ever be proud on us? Have we ever give her the respect & love she deserves from us in return?
While penning down my thoughts on paper, Mother’s day showed me a very different picturization of reality, which all of us know already but I don’t know why we always ignores like nothing has happened. We believe shouting on our mother is our birth right. Don’t know on what basis we feel superior by disobeying & disrespecting her. We see, we hear, but we always avoid understanding her pain and heartlessly feels like mom’s haves to deal with pain only (what why ?) If she is a mother that doesn’t mean she will be the one who has to suffer no matter what happens. She has to get up early because you have to go to school, college or office, She has to walk up late just because you don’t have dinner on time, She has to work double just because you have so called week off & you want to follow schedule according to your wish and you want to eat special dishes. Is it fair ?? Is it justice ?? Is it humanity ??

Someone has truly said “We always take for granted the people who love us the most”

MAA:Beta lunch me kya khaoge?
CHILD: Yr mumma bna do na kuch bhi. Kyu disturb kar re ho. Kab se bole ja rahe ho tv bhi ni dekhne de rahe.

MAA: Beta khana tyar ho gya hai khalo.
CHILD: Yr mumma bola na kha lunga, bacha ni hu mai baar baar wohi baat bolke tang mat kiya karo

MAA: Beta kuch aur chahiye kya?
CHILD: Phle ek hi baar me ni la skte sab kuch. Ek sabji bhi thandi padi hai. Chodo mujhe khana hi ni khana.

MAA: Beta dhulne wale kapde bahar nikal do.
CHILD: Kya kapde kapde laga rakha hai. Nikal dunga thode time me. (That thoda time never comes)

MAA: Beta kal office/school jane ke liye bag pack ho gya ?
CHILD: Kar lunga na mumma, abhi kitna time pada hai. Apko to bus adat hai bolne ki. (No bag packed & again shouting at mom next morning) mumma bag me ye dal diya tha? Vo dal diya tha? Kya yr mumma apke karan aj late ho jaunga mai.

MAA: Beta TV/Phone band krdo ankhein khrab ho jayegi.
CHILD: Kitni baar bol diya kar dunga jab man kiya. Ankhein khrab hongi meri hongi apka kya. abhi mujhe shanti se game khelne do.

MAA: Beta kal office/school me tiffin me dalne ko kya bnau ?
CHILD: Kya baar baar mujhse puchte rehte ho mujhse mat pucha karo. Kuch bhi bna diya kro. (Next morning while collecting tiffin) Tinde ?? Tinde bnaye hai aj fhir se? Puch to liya kro ek baar bnane se phle. Roz hi Tinde, ghiya bnate rehte ho. Mujhe leke hi ni jana tiffin wohi kha lunga kuch.

MAA: Beta kaha ja re ho?
CHILD: Ab mai apni marzi se kahi aa ja bhi ni skta?? Har cheez apko btana jruri ni hai.

MAA: Sham ko ghar time se aa jana.
CHILD: Fhir se lecture shuru mat kro ab esko leke. Jab mera man karega tabhi aunga mai to.

MAA: Kiska phone tha?
CHILD: Apko kya ? Friend hai mera ? Apko kya karna puch ke? Ap kon sa sare friends ko janti ho mere aur phone ke bich me ese bola mat kro, kitni baar bola hai, kuch smjh ni ata apko.

MAA: Beta saman yaha waha mat rakho, warna milega ni baad me.
CHILD: Mujhe pata hai kaha kya rakhna hai. Ap bahar jao mere room se, mai apne ap sab kar lunga. (After few days) yr mumma meri socks kaha hai ? Perfume ni mil raha? Mera purse kaha rakh diya apne. Mene to yahi rakha tha apne hi kahi aur rakha hoga. (Finally finds it from the corner).

Do you able to relate yourself to any of the above conversation? I am sure many of us do, in fact all of us do. Isn’t it a crime which all of us doing knowingly or unknowingly by hurting the purest soul of the earth. We shouldn’t even call yourself human’s we are the living monsters. In case I will be able to change the prospective of anyone of you and you will start respecting your mother in true sense, I will consider my writing gets its meaning that day. Better late than never don’t waste any more time and apologize from your mother. It’s in your hand what you want to make her feel about motherhood: A Blessing or A Curse.

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